Meredith Gibraltar talks of how writing about her sorrow helped. But which way of writing helped the most? Cheers!
As you know my cat Echo has passed. It is a time of great sorrow for me. I wrote about it in two blogs, a wrote a poem and a wrote a similar scene in the book I am writing. Of all three the writing of a scene in a book was the most cathartic. Cathartic means providing psychological relief through the open expression of strong emotions. Crying is cathartic. Well yesterday writing a scene in my next book was the most cathartic. It was as if I was reliving the anguish as I expressed it in a character in my book. When I write my book I often loose myself in the character. I was gripped by the sorrow and relived it as I wrote it down and had a sense of relief after I was done. But the large sense of relief only came after writing my book and only marginally when writing my blogs or my poem. It was interesting. I think it was because I wrote what the woman was saying, reliving my own sorrow in her words.
I have said it before. Write a book. Especially if you suffer from anxiety or depression. It can be just 20 pages. Or even longer. Or just start writing and see how long the book is. In mine a woman has a depression and just lost her cat. Another gripping scene was written this morning where she is overcome with fear because she is being followed (fiction) and because she lost her cat. It was all too much for her. Again I was wrapped up in the story and feeling her sorrow. Again it was cathartic.
Write my friends, write. And heal as you go one. Never stop fighting! 🙂
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Meredith Gibraltar wishes to thank everyone for their kind words and their likes. It gives me courage to keep on writing poems and my book Martha. Both are therapeutic!
I can’t begin to say how validating it is to post about my writing. It encourages me to strive to be the best writing that I can be. It also motivates me to write more. The writing soothes my tattered soul. A soul that greatly needs healing. You help with that by liking and following my blog! Thank you!
I also paint and draw. I sell my art on my other website: miriamsart.com. Meredith Gibraltar is a pseudonym. I also write about my healing journey. I share my daily challenges coping with my anxiety.
So I take this time to reflect on 2017 and thank you all for your kind words and likes. It is greatly appreciated. Thank you!
Meredith Gibraltar writes about her writing journey. I have figured out the ending for my fiction but am still working on the title and the subtitle. I am slowly progressing though.
I started out with the idea that my book would be three books named Stephen, Theo and The Dominant. It was meant to be a fiction. I then started incorporating some of the issues that I face with anxiety and the book took a whole new turn. Then I thought that I would call the book Martha. Now I have decided on the end. I am torn between calling the book Martha or the name of the man that she falls in love with at the end. I haven’t figured out who that is yet. I’ll have to see. While the book followed my footsteps in my healing journey for a chapter, now it will be fiction again based on my experiences in life. Since it is a romance she will fall in love. Her journey is the main point of the whole book so I think that I will be calling it Martha. Then the subtitle becomes very important. I don’t know what it will be yet. I will have to wait until I finish the book.
Editing the book is next. I will send the book to one friend and have her read it. Then I will send it to the editor. I haven’t chosen an editor yet.
Then publishing is the most daunting task. I think that I’ll have to self publish. I don’t know. I’ll see when I get to that stage.
Slowly my book advances. I have to set dates for when I will finish the book to give me incentive. I’ll do that next.
Until next time…Cheers!